“Can’t Stop the Feeling!” Justin Timberlake 2016 Trolls

“So just dance, dance, dance….”

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Did you watch that football game at the Justin Timberlake Concert Sunday? The Super Bowl? Just kidding! Did your team win? I was able to enjoy it without any pressure of who would win since my team was not playing. And I like both teams, each are the favorite teams of many of my friends – especially the Eagles for all of my teammates from our club in PA! Following my Super Bowl tradition, I made turkey chili and served it in homemade bread bowls. It was so good. Check out my recipe here: Pumpkin Turkey Chili

“My idea of a Super Bowl is a toilet that cleans itself.”  Maxine

This was one of the most entertaining Super Bowl games. So close to the very end. But I have to admit, some of the most entertaining parts of the Super Bowl for me were the pre-game stories about the quarterbacks, the commercials, and the halftime show. How amazing that the Philadelphia quarterback almost retired in 2016 and is now a Super Bowl hero. Bet the Eagles are glad he changed his mind! And what a beautiful, sweet baby daughter he has. And Tom Brady, “Lord of the Rings” with 5 rings and beautiful teeth! But wow… Justin Timberlake. I got to see him perform in Charlottesville at an outdoor concert last summer and thought what a great entertainer he is, not just a performer. And he did not disappoint. Fun to watch, especially his last song – my favorite – “Can’t Stop the Feeling”. What a show!

“You’re not meant to do what is easy. You’re meant to challenge yourself.” Justin Timberlake

So that favorite “JT” song of mine goes “I can’t stop the feelin’ so just dance, dance, dance…” which is what I have been doing for the last month. Salsa dancing. It has been a lot of fun but also challenging as you are supposed to turn and look the opposite direction at times; hard to do when your neck doesn’t always cooperate. That’s challenging enough, but you also have to know your left foot from your right foot, which has always been a problem for me! If you are the “leader” you start on your left foot and if you are the “follower”, you start on your right foot. And it is well-known that I like to lead when I dance! But the most challenging part was going there SOLO. Without a partner. Luckily, a partner is not required and if you have one, you rotate and switch partners so often you would rarely be with that person.

“The measure of who we are is what we do with what we have.”  Vince Lombardi

I have successfully challenged myself to maintain a very active lifestyle which I hope to continue for many years. About 15 years ago (when I was much younger!), I was on the cover of one of our fitness club’s brochures. WOW I thought that was so cool until I read the title: Exercise for the Actively Aging! I now find myself legitimately in this category and am thankful to be here. But being in this group brings many challenges. I am going to Physical Therapy for a “pain in my neck”. According to my therapist, every woman over the age of 50 (so definitely this 60-year-old) has arthritis. This, coupled with maintaining my “active lifestyle”, has given me a big pain in the neck!

“Don’t wait for everything to be perfect before you decide to enjoy your life.” Joyce Meyer

Things may not be perfect in my life but no way am I letting that stop me from enjoying life and enjoying it SOLO. The Super Bowl was entertaining, but you know what else is entertaining? MOVIES! You know I LOVE Hallmark movies, but my favorite movie of all time is “You’ve Got Mail” with Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan. And I love GOING to the movies, even by myself, SOLO. First time I was a bit nervous, but then I realized how wonderful it is. On my own schedule, and sometimes on the spur of the moment. I can see whatever movie I want to see. Like last Friday when I saw “The Post” with Tom Hanks (who has been married to Rita Wilson for 30 years). It was very good. My younger daughter also loves movies and goes all the time (one of her college majors was in film studies). She introduced me to Movie Pass. Have you heard about Movie Pass? Well… for $9.95/month you can see an unlimited number of NEW movies at most theaters. So for me, now that I get the “Senior Discount”, if I see more than 1 movie a month it is worth it. For my daughter, who is only halfway to the “Senior Discount,” it is WELL worth it! You should check it out if you love movies. Just saying. Oops, my kids are trying to get me to stop saying that! (Editors Note: DRINK!)

“You can always find hope in a dog’s eyes.”

Also entertaining is my sweet granddawg who loves to play tug of war. She will entertain you for hours. It was just a year ago last weekend that she became part of our family. She definitely landed in the perfect home (which she totally rules) with my daughter and son-in-law. Can’t imagine us without her now. And boy has she grown – 70 pounds! There is no way I could hold her now. I can barely hold on to her leash!

 

“Time flies whether you’re having fun or not. The choice is yours.”

Go out there this week and find something that entertains you, makes you happy, makes you smile, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

Best,

Leslie

 

“Blue Moon” (Tony Bennett, 1958 – and no, not the good looking UVA Basketball Coach!)

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“Blue Moon you saw me standing alone…”

Did you know that there is a Blue Moon today (January 31, 2018)? And it comes around only “once in a blue moon!” (haha!) Actually, a blue moon is the second full moon in the same month and occurs about every 32 months. It is a relatively rare occurrence, which is where that saying comes from, “once in a blue moon.” There will be another Blue Moon in late March – two in one year! This is so rare that it will not happen again for 19 years, until 2037.

Don’t you just love how bright the night seems with a full moon? BD (before divorce) we used to run at 5 am and it was so dark, except on those rare mornings when there was a full moon and no clouds to hide the moonlight. Made for a safer run with the moon lighting our way. AD (after divorce) I wait and run with the sunlight which always lights my way.

Just like the moon, we all go through phases.”

I have had some rare fun the last couple of weeks! Our club is offering dance lessons for our members. First up, Salsa Dancing! I went because I love to dance and want to support (and enjoy) the variety of programs offered by our club. But I was curious as to how many people would be interested in dancing on a Tuesday night, thinking it would only be a few. Boy was I wrong! Over 60 people came! No partner needed which is rare in a dancing class and FUN for those trying new things SOLO, like me. Salsa, Cha-Cha, Bachata, and Swing will be taught through May. What fun!

“We can’t always choose the music life plays for us but we can choose how we DANCE to it.”

Still in my “busy season” at work, it is not rare that I find myself at the office on the weekends. Luckily there is light at the end of the tunnel! Last weekend we took a break from work and walked to the downtown mall to get lunch. Ran into a coworker and his sweet family, including his precious daughter, who I have adored since her birth 9 years ago but rarely get to see! This child could be mine (and I would take her) – she has blonde hair and blue eyes, which neither of her parents do. So rare, right? She told her little brother that she was coming to live with me and bless his heart, he was devastated! Very upset as he too adores her! She is such a smart child – talked early, sang early, entertained our office every time she visited. Only 2 year old I know who could say “Pavarotti” clearly (and know who he was) and sing Bohemian Rhapsody. And I have never seen a father as crazy about a baby as my co-worker was when his daughter was born. So precious.

My Adopted Daughter!

Speaking of precious daughters, my older daughter was here this weekend as we celebrated her husband’s birthday with his family. My daughter is very blessed to find herself in such a wonderful family. ME TOO!  My younger daughter and I joined them for dinner. And of course my older daughter had me out early Saturday morning running in the COLD. But I did not mind, since I was running with her, though I did make her wait until the sun was up as a compromise!

“Don’t worry if you’re making waves simply by being yourself. The moon does it all the time.” Scott Stabile

I am sure the tides are very high this week at the beach with the full moon. I cannot wait to get back to the beach and breathe in that salty air, walk on the beach, and eat fresh seafood. To help curb my shrimp craving, a friend and I split 30 shrimp for dinner last weekend. We are creatures of habit, so it is not rare that we always order the same thing at this restaurant. And I threaten him if he tries to eat one of my shrimp!

BEST dinner!

“Shoot for the moon….even if you miss you’ll land in the stars.”

I have given this advice to my kids. And I have followed it myself. Always aim high with your goals. Don’t worry about the rare failure, just land in the stars. Make the most of every goal and every day, because as we all know, tomorrow is not promised to any of us.

Best,

Leslie

 

“Goodbye doesn’t mean forever…” Goodbye Girl 1977

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Ever had to say goodbye? To a family member? A friend? Your home? Car? Spouse? I am not fond of goodbyes. Is anyone? I remember saying goodbye to my family, friends, and neighbors when I moved 21 years ago from my hometown of Winston-Salem, NC to Charlottesville, VA. There was a going away party given by my friends and a big dinner with my family. Chances to say goodbye. Then moving day arrived and friends stopped by the house to say goodbye again. I remember the movers asking if I had allergies because my face was splotchy and my nose was all red and I sniffled constantly. I responded, “no, I’m moving away from all my family and friends.” One of my dearest friends gave me the best advice that day: “When you get in that big blue van heading North to Charlottesville, don’t look back, look forward. Plan how you are going to decorate your new home and make a new life up there.” Wonderful advice. I took it to heart. Also comforting that my Momma was traveling with me to help with the move and I did not have to say goodbye to her that day.

Goodbyes can run the gamut of emotions. Some are heartbreaking, some are maddening, some are confusing, some are a relief, some are happy! You have to get over the hurdle of the goodbye and look for the positive. Yes, I hated leaving my hometown of 40 years and moving to a place where I knew no one. But it ended up being good for my family. And for me. My children received great educations, we all made wonderful friends, and learned that it is possible to adjust to change.

“How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” Winnie the Pooh

One of the hardest goodbyes was when I had to say a final goodbye to my Dad. He had a stroke in 2000 and was in the ICU for 10 days. Part of that time he was awake and communicative. But by the end, he was not. However, I truly believe he could hear us. My sisters and I told him we loved him, we would take care of each other, and goodbye. And he was gone.

“The only time goodbye is painful is when you know you’ll never say hello again.”

When my next door neighbors of 16 years moved to Kentucky, I gave them a going away party and left town. Went to the beach. Could not bear to say goodbye to my dear friend and her family and did not want to see the moving van in front of their house. She was (still is) such a dear friend to me. She and her family took my family “in” when we moved here and knew no one. They became our family. We were room mothers together for our boys every school year and had so much fun planning parties and working in their classroom. So instead of saying goodbye, I opened my house to her family so they had a place to stay while their house was being packed up. I did not say goodbye. Luckily, I still see her many times a year and talk to her often. I can now say goodbye to her because I know we will always be in close touch.

“Good friends never say goodbye… they simply say ‘See you Soon’”.

I usually have a loving relationship with my cars as I love road trips. When I was in college, I talked my mom into co-signing a note for me to buy an MGB convertible. I had the best time tooling around town and going to the beach in that little convertible! I thought I was so cool! Owned it (so to speak) for 6 months before realizing I could not sell my Monte Carlo (gas guzzler during gas shortage) to pay for the MGB. So, I had to sell the MGB, which, of course, was very easy to do. Oh how I loved that car and how I hated saying goodbye to it. One day I will have another convertible! I must admit I also hated saying goodbye to each van I owned (I had 3). I lived in my vans, carpooling my kids and their friends all over town for practices and games. When all of my kids finally had their licenses, they informed me that it was time for me to give up driving a van – it was not “cool”. Goodbye Van, Hello SUV. Love my SUV!

Saying goodbye to each of my homes was bittersweet. My first house was your basic brick ranch, very special as all of my children were born while living there. And I loved my neighbors. It was hard to say goodbye to that house, but I was so excited to say hello to the new, bigger house in a wonderful neighborhood. I was then heartbroken to leave that house and move to VA, away from all that I knew and so many memories, but loved the new house and neighborhood where my kids could walk to elementary and middle school. As you all know, I recently moved SOLO into a new maintenance-free neighborhood. As I was packing up 19 years of memories in my old house, I kept thinking how hard it was going to be to say goodbye to the house where I raised my kids. I loved that house and my neighbors dearly. But I was so broken on moving day (finding out I was becoming SOLO), that I needed and wanted to say goodbye to that house. And have not been back. Luckily, as I said goodbye to that house, I also said hello to my new home which I absolutely love!

So, what started these “Goodbye” thoughts? Our fitness club is losing one of our General Managers as she is starting a new chapter in her life. I have known her for 15 years and she is a friend. We will miss her smiling face and happy outlook around the club. There have been several “Goodbye” parties for her, all lots of fun! Like I said, not all goodbyes are sad and not all goodbyes are permanent. The good thing about this one is that we are not really saying goodbye to her, just see ya later! She is not moving. She will still be a member of the club. And I’ll see her at Bunco.

What is Bunco? Well I had the same question just last week when I was invited to join a fun, social group of ladies to play Bunco. It was nothing like what I expected. I thought it involved cards and I LOVE playing cards! But no, Bunco is all about rolling 3 dice, trying to score points. Tables of 4 players with one head table. Oh, and there is a tiara involved! Sounds interesting right? I am looking forward to February’s Bunco night. And I want that tiara!

Goodbyes can lead to new opportunities. One door might close, but trust me, another one will open. Walk through that door and try things you never have before. Like me! I was pushed through the door but am so thankful. I have discovered there is a lot of fun to be had after a goodbye – travels, Moscow Mules, Bunco. And many adventures to come. I always hate to say goodbye to the beach, and find myself immediately planning when I will say hello again.

“It’s time to say goodbye, but I think goodbyes are sad and I’d much rather say hello. Hello to a new adventure.” Ernie Harwell

So go out there and find your happiness after a goodbye. Look for that door and throw it wide open! Find your adventure. And make the most of every day of your life, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

Best,

Leslie

 

It’s a CODE!

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Our warm weather was very short-lived up here. Back to the freezing cold temperatures. At least it has been sunny. Well mostly.

Last weekend was a busy one for me. I worked. All weekend. Our auditor was here to review our financial year end. This is my busiest time of year as I am responsible for producing our year-end financial statements (and all the supporting schedules for each of our 12 clubs), completing 2018 budgets, and setting up everything for the new year. We have discovered it is easier to work through the weekend with fewer interruptions. It wasn’t as bad as it sounds. He’s not your typical boring auditor. Younger guy (comparatively speaking) with 5 kids and lots of good stories. I have worked with him for over 10 years and he knows me very well, so he knew I needed to get a workout in on Saturday morning. And I was involved with my first code – called when a member is injured, sick, or unresponsive. There was an emergency at the club. Luckily, this one wasn’t too dire of a code, but the EMS was called. Our team went into immediate action. Luckily, as it always seems to happen, a doctor was right there on the track. And me? Well, I ran and got cold towels and water. I stayed with our member until the EMS arrived. Remember earlier when I told you everyone at ACAC has to be CPR certified? This includes our administrative team members, even the bean counters like me. Well I was telling her how every team member is CPR certified (just talking to her) and she asked what I did at ACAC. I am sure it did not reassure her when I said, “I produce all the financial statements.” That’s probably not what she was hoping to hear. But I do think she was happy I was there. I was.

“You have two hands. One to help yourself, the second to help others.”

Enjoying the warmth of the fireplace at ACAC.

I also told her about the time I collapsed while running the Charlottesville 10-miler. It was my first big, long race. April 1, 2006 (no fooling!). I had never run in a race that long and was nervous, but it was for a very good cause. However, I had trained all winter in cold, even snowy weather, and low and behold it was very warm that April 1st! I was overdressed and overstressed. Made it 9.5 miles when I went down. No memory of it. No memory of them asking me who I was (no clue) or what day it was (again no clue) or even of riding in the ambulance to the hospital. Only remember waking up in the ER and asking the nurse if I was ok. Then worrying about my daughter who was waiting at the finish line, and my other children waiting on a call about the race. I was ok. I was given 3+ bags of fluids and after complaining about my wrist, an x-ray determined it was broken, a result of my collapse. I had suffered a heat stroke and was told I probably would never remember the details. It’s true, I still do not remember. What I do remember is thinking afterwards, “Wow, I ran 9.5 miles and probably lost some LB’s.” NOPE. They put so much fluid in me I could barely move! Just kidding… but I did receive a ton of fluid. And was so embarrassed. I mean, I could have walked across the finish line in just half a mile! Ran it again a couple of years later just to prove to myself I could. And I did.

“Helping one person might not change the whole world, but it could change the world for one person”

When I went down in that race, several runners helped me, including a wonderful doctor running near me who stopped to help and stayed with me until the EMS arrived. Also, my daughter’s field hockey coach rode by on her bike and stopped to help, and oddly enough, she was the only person I recognized. I said to her “are you Miss Field Hockey Lady?” Don’t remember that either! She went to find my daughter and let her know. But they all took very good care of me, and sacrificed their “time” in the race. I was comforted by the concern of the people who stopped to help, which is all I did for the lady in my class.

“Great opportunities to help others seldom come, but small ones surround us everyday.”  Sally Koch

How have you been lately? Happy? Sad? Did you know that this past Monday, January 15th, is known as “Blue Monday”, the saddest day of the year? The third Monday of the new year is considered the most depressing day due to many factors including the cold and often dreary weather, the holidays are in our rear view mirror but the holiday debt is right up front, and our New Year’s resolutions may have floundered while all the food and drink consumed during the holidays have added to our waistlines. OK, honestly, it is a hoax y’all. A marketing ploy started by a travel group in 2005 to convince people they needed to book a trip to get themselves out of the doldrums surrounding this time of the year. For our fitness clubs, the 3rd Monday of January is one of our busiest days! So if you do find yourself feeling sad or low, trust me, working out is one of the best ways to pull yourself up!

“Winter blues should only refer to the color of the ocean.”

I also have a discovery to share with you. Thanks to the wonderful blog,  Jersey Jenn’s Kitchen,  by the daughter-in-law of my late friend Luanne, I discovered the Little Big Meals offered at Fresh Market Grocery Store for $20-$25. These meals include everything you need, chopped and ready to go, and will feed a family of 4+. For me, SOLO, I get them when I am having company, or to have and freeze extra servings for later. I have served their chili, lasagna, and Chicken Parmesan. The chili included chicken or beef, cut up fresh onions and peppers, canned beans, 2 cans of tomatoes, grated cheese, sour cream, and 6 corn muffins. Made this for my sister and brother-in-law and we all loved it, plus I had leftovers that I froze. Told my co-workers who also purchased it and loved it. My kids and I had the lasagna (meat and veggie), salad, bread, and Gelato before Christmas. Will do it again. You need to try these. The offering changes every Wednesday. So easy, so good, so fresh, so inexpensive, so convenient with everything ready for you to cook.

Fresh Market’s “Little Big Meal”

So, how are your New Year’s resolutions working out? Me? I read a really good book, Winter Solstice by Elin Hilderbrand. Have not started my knitting lessons yet but found some options for lessons. My kids are succeeding in theirs – my son cancelled Netflix and is reading the latest Baldacci book I gave him for Christmas, my older daughter is not “snoozing” anymore at 4:30 am but getting right up (well most of the time), and my editor, I mean, my younger daughter has been meeting a friend at the gym later at night since ACAC opened a new 24/7 club the end of December. Don’t give up on your plans. Refocus yourself this week. Concentrate on what makes you fulfilled and happy. Be there for others, lending a helping hand when needed, because as we all know, tomorrow is not promised to any of us.

This will make you smile… my older daughter and my granddawg watching Carolina Basketball WIN!

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’”  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Stay warm,

Leslie

 

Baby It’s Cold Outside! (1944)

“Dear Winter, I’m breaking up with you. I think it’s time I start seeing other seasons. Summer is way hotter than you.”

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Can you believe how cold it has been? And how dry everything is? Is your skin dry? Sinuses bothering you? Waking up with a sore throat? Remember Vicks VapoRub? According to my mom, Vicks is THE cure for any and all winter illnesses. Did your mom put Vicks on your neck and chest, wrap you in a towel and fasten it with a huge safety/diaper pin when you were a child? Mine did. And she also put Vicks in our vaporizer. Now I did not put Vicks in my vaporizer, but I did buy a Vicks Vaporizer!

I also bought a cute mister/diffuser for my office which I am now addicted to. It came with 3 essential oils, “Orange” (100% orange), “Fight It” (orange, cardamom, cinnamon, eucalyptus, clove), and “Pay Attention” (lemon, basil, rosemary, peppermint, sage), all wonderfully soothing. And yes, I did get it at Bed Bath and Beyond (using that 20% coupon!) but my daughter found one similar and cheaper on Amazon. So my office is now warm and toasty with my space heater going full blast and so soothing with the citrus and herb scents. Plus the static electricity is gone! Oh, and I followed my younger daughter’s lead and started drinking hot tea to warm me up. You know how I love pumpkin? Well I found a great Pumpkin Spice tea.

My tea, my diffuser (can you see the mist coming out?) and Pandora in the office.

“A woman is like a tea bag – you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.”  Eleanor Roosevelt

It was a frigidly cold weekend with record low temperatures. However, it was a warm and great weekend for me! Well, with the exception of the result of the UNC-UVA basketball game Saturday. (Congratulations to all the Wahoo fans – UVA rocked!) But I digress… All of my kids were here this weekend! Keeping with my goal of getting everyone together more often. Oh how it warms my heart to have my kids all together. Thankful that I got my live sourdough starter from an “old” friend in WS before Christmas because I have been able to have warm sugarcake weekly. Baked some Saturday morning for our pre-game brunch (and sent one home with my son). Thankful to my boss for our 6 tickets to the basketball game. Thankful to see the Tar Heels in person (especially the pre-game slide), even though they lost. I mean, we did score more than last year’s measly 43 points, but could not score 50 points! Really? At the Dean Dome in Chapel Hill, when the Heels score 100 points everyone gets a free biscuit at Bojangles the next morning. That does happen y’all. We scored 96 last night against Boston College. Not enough for a free biscuit, but more than 49! Just saying…

“When sorrow knocks at your door, tell it you’re busy finding happiness.” Saru Singhal

After the game we headed to a brewery to drown our sorrows and met some of my kids’ friends there. We then had dinner at Oakhart Social (where oddly, there were a lot of local UNC fans sitting next to us). If you are ever in Charlottesville, you must eat here. It is fun, eclectic, and delicious. Small plates to share, best brussel sprouts in the world, even if you don’t like brussel sprouts. After dinner my younger daughter took us to a quaint, wonderful little bar. I loved watching my kids together – all the laughing and telling stories – my kids are really fun to be with. And the atmosphere and drinks at the bar were really good as well!

People I love most! Notice my sweater? Christmas gift from my son last year… he won the prize of surprise gifts! A true VINTAGE Carolina Sweater!

“Happiness is when you realize that your children have turned out to be good people.”

My drink… Not a Moscow Mule, but a Made In Moscow with mint!

What warms your heart in this cold, frigid season? My heart is warmed spending time with my kids. And if I can’t be with them, just talking to them. Or facetiming with my granddawg!

The weatherman has promised near 60 degrees by the end of this week. I am holding him to this! And have you noticed that we are having more minutes of light each day? That is making this SOLO gal very happy! We are now up to 2 minutes more of light each day. I’ll be much happier when the days are longer and warmer, but I know that is a couple of months away.

“I’m not going outside until the temperature is above my age.”

Hopefully, it is going to warm up for all of us this weekend. But you know the temperatures are going to drop again. So find what warms your heart and make it happen. Most likely it includes spending time with those you love which is so important, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

Warmly,

Leslie

 

SOUP’S ON!

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GOODBYE 2017, HELLO 2018, which promises to hold wonderful times for all of us. There is much to look forward to – new experiences, new opportunities, much happiness. I went to church this past Sunday (New Year’s Eve) thinking I would start the new year off right, only to realize I was ENDING the old year, so I ended it on a good note. We sang the last of the Christmas hymns. The message was “Leaving The Past Behind”. Hmmmm, perfect timing!

My Christmas decorations are all packed away, ready for next Thanksgiving… I mean, Christmas. Thankfully my older daughter was here last weekend and we took my tree down and packed away all my ornaments. It was fun to talk about my new ornaments and reminisce about the old ones I still use as we carefully packed them up. We then laid my tree on an old sheet to carry it out of the house. It was a big tree! Vacuumed up the zillion needles and said Goodbye to a wonderful 2017 Christmas season. It was a good feeling to get my house back in order.

Ahhh… Everything back in order… Ready for the New Year!

“Live each day as if your life had just begun.”

I hope all y’all had a fun and safe New Year’s Eve. Did you make it to midnight? Well this “old” lady did! Can you imagine being in Time Square on New Year’s Eve with those record low temperatures? OH my, makes me cold just thinking about it! It was frigid here in Charlottesville, too. We even had some snow, which messed up my running plans with my daughter. I ended up on the treadmill at the gym, my first time since becoming SOLO. And I survived. Luckily there was a Hallmark movie on TV while I was running.

Did you set your New Year’s resolutions? I told you mine last week: many trips to the beach, read more books, learn to knit, and take even better care of myself. Also I want to see more of my out-of-town kids. (Look out kiddos!) My children also set some resolutions: my older daughter is going to hit her snooze alarm only once (she gets up and runs most days at 0 dark hundred no matter how cold it is) to give her more time in the morning. My son is going to cancel Netflix and instead read more books (I love this!). And my younger daughter plans to get healthier by eating better and cooking more. She came to me for help, accountability, and support with her resolution, all of which I am happy to give! It’s a great resolution, but harder to do in the winter. When people think about eating healthy, often salads and smoothies come to mind. And it is WAY too cold for smoothies! Did I mention it is frigid here? Our coldest weather in 2 years?  So, what advice did I give her? Chapter 6, “Savory Soups, Stews, and Sandwiches” from our family cookbook, “AMEN… DIG IN”! Soups are my go to meals in the winter as they are such an easy, filling, and warm way to get your veggies in, and an added bonus is there is always enough to last for several days when you are cooking SOLO, like my daughter and I are doing.

My children each have our family cookbook with our great recipes, thanks to my older sister who compiled all of our family recipes into a cookbook. How did she come up with the title? It is our family ending to the Moravian blessing: “Come Lord Jesus our guest to be, and bless these gifts bestowed by thee. Bless our dear ones everywhere and keep them in Thy loving care. AMEN, DIG IN!” My children have also been subscribing to Hello Fresh some this year, learning how to cook many different things. Their meals look great! I can attest to this as they text me pictures of what they have cooked!

So, back to the soups. Oh how I love soup and usually make a pot or two on Sundays to get me through the week. Listed first in our cookbook is “Leslie’s Christmas Eve Tomato Basil Soup” that I always make as a starter for our Christmas Eve meal. My kids love it, especially when we have enough the next day with a good grilled cheese sandwich. I double, or triple this recipe because it is so good and healthy.

Famous Christmas Eve Tomato Basil Soup!

Tomato Basil Soup Recipe

Another favorite soup is a vegetable soup/bisque with zero points for any of you Weight Watchers. Made a big pot Sunday to use up all my leftover veggies from the holidays. Plus I added some cabbage for good luck! This pot included: diced onions, celery, carrots, red yellow and orange peppers, squash, zucchini, broccoli, green beans, cabbage, and 2 cans of diced tomatoes. You can use any veggies! And If you don’t have an immersion blender, go get one! It has been a total game-changer. Not to push Bed Bath and Beyond, but you can use those 20% coupons there.

Zero Points Veggie Soup Recipe

“Good character, like good soup, is usually homemade.”  Amish proverb

You can never go wrong with Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup and this recipe is one I adapted from Fitness Magazine. I usually make this on Sundays as well, when Harris Teeter has their oven roasted chickens on sale. And we all know chicken soup is “good for the soul” as well as just good for YOU – especially if you have a cold or the flu.

Nothing like Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup!

Chicken Noodle Soup Recipe

And last but not least is my easy crockpot butternut squash soup. I love this soup! I cut my butternut squash in half and half again, scoop out the seeds but don’t peel it (so hard to peel!). Start it in the crockpot when I leave for work in the morning and it is ready when I get home. Healthy, delicious, and makes my house smell amazing!

Butternut Squash Soup Recipe

Do you have any soup recipes to share? I am always in search of new recipes for these cold days. A friend and fellow member of the gym recently shared her pumpkin soup with me and it was to die for! I have not made it yet, but plan to soon. And I will share that one, along with some chowder and chili recipes I have.

“The glow of one warm thought is to me worth more than money.”  Thomas Jefferson

So, how am I doing with my resolutions so far? Well, with one daughter getting up earlier, one getting healthier, and me wanting to spend more time with my out of town kids, what did I do? Told my younger daughter I would pick her up at 5:15 am and that we were driving to Richmond to surprise her sister at the cycle class she teaches at 6:30 am. It was a GREAT class and so much fun to surprise my daughter. Plus got to visit with my younger daughter for an hour there and back. Well, kinda. She fell asleep on the way back to Charlottesville! (Getting up earlier was definitely NOT one of her resolutions.) But what a great workout and start to the day!

EARLY morning cycle class with my girls!

“One kind word can WARM three months of Winter.” Japanese proverb

Only 168 days till summer y’all!  ONLY! So in the meantime, stay warm. Make some delicious and healthy soups. And spend time with those you love, because as we all know, tomorrow is not promised to any of us.

“Hold onto whatever keeps you warm inside.”

Best,

Leslie

 

Should Auld Acquaintance Be Forgot….

Welcome back to SOLO at SIXTY!

I hope all y’all had a wonderful, blessed Christmas holiday. I can honestly say this was one of my best, if not the best! Surrounded by my kids. Followed some of our old traditions, started some new ones, and created some lasting memories. This Christmas was about the moments… our time together. Love, laughter, fun. My younger daughter and I made gingerbread houses with the some very special children who are finding their way through their first Christmas without their Momma. They are so loving to each other, and are loved by so many. They are blessed, and were a blessing to us.

Since my younger daughter was working at the vineyard Saturday, we decided to go visit her and have a wine tasting before watching the Carolina game back at my house (thank heavens we won!). Christmas Eve my older daughter and I got up early for a run. It was COLD y’all, but as I have said before, this child is the only one who can get me out running in bitterly cold weather. It was a great start to the day. I love running with her! We all went to a couple of breweries and ended up at one for lunch. Had our traditional Christmas Eve dinner followed by communion and a candlelight service at church, and ended with a late night of watching Christmas movies. Christmas morning started with another COLD but sunny run (to counteract all the eating!), brunch, and presents. Santa was very good to us this year. We spent Christmas afternoon in front of the fire, watching Christmas movies and working a puzzle, a BIG puzzle. Finished with a wonderful Christmas dinner. The best part of Christmas was being surrounded by my kids and watching them with each other – they have so much fun together. My heart is full and I am so very thankful for all the blessings in my life. There are many.

“The love of a family is life’s greatest blessing.”

Once my children left the day after Christmas, I was ready to move on in preparation for the new year. Remember, I start celebrating Christmas early, before Thanksgiving, so as soon as my children said goodbye, I was ready to say goodbye to this wonderful season. I packed up my Christmas sweaters (sadly) and put my house back in order. There was so much food to freeze! Recently, my sister looked in my fridge and said “this is so empty!” Well, it is packed to the gills now. I won’t cook for weeks!  I’ll take down my tree and put all my decorations back in their bins this weekend. I like to start the new year clean and clear!

“Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new beginning.” Carl Bard

And here are the final 5 days of the 25 Days of Christmas Sweaters. I hope you enjoyed them as much as I did.

Speaking of which, next Monday brings in the New Year – 2018! WOW! Do you feel as if the years are flying by!?!? Are you ready to say goodbye to 2017?  The older I get, the quicker the years pass. Actually, I was anxious to say goodbye to 2016 and was happy to see it go. But not now. 2017 was a pretty good year for me. I am so much better off today than I was one year ago. Are you? I have come a L-O-N-G way this year. Now I am ready to enjoy each day to its fullest, to see what is in store for me. I am not going into 2018 with any baggage from 2017. Truly, I believe the best is yet to come! So, COME ON BEST! (Remember I am not patient!)

What does the new year mean to you? What are you looking forward to in 2018? What do you think 2018 will hold for you? I always see a new year as a new start. I am looking forward to much happiness in 2018. Trips to the beach (my favorite place) as often as I can. Special times spent with my kids and family. I want to read more books, one of my favorite past times. I want to learn to knit. I am going to take even better care of myself, because I am responsible for ME. Plus I am not getting any younger! I am going to remember all the lessons I learned from becoming SOLO, but plan to leave all the heartache behind. Truly, I am looking so forward to 2018 and hope you are as well. Remember, you have yet to see your best days!

“What the new year brings to you will greatly depend on what you bring to the new year.”

What are your plans for celebrating New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day? Can you stay up and usher in the new year? Have you ever celebrated in NYC, watching the ball drop? I have not and really have never had the desire to! I have to admit, I prefer a quiet New Year’s Eve. Remember, it is just a day and tomorrow you will wake up and start a new day. And a new year!

“And suddenly you know…It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.”

My advice to my kids for 2018, which I will share with you:

  1. Be thankful for all you have. “There is always, always, always something to be thankful for.” Sometimes it is harder to find, but it is there. Look for it every day.
  2. Be kind. Practice one random act of kindness every day. Every day.
  3. Be honest. Tell the truth. “You never have to remember anything if you tell the truth.”
  4. Don’t wait for life to happen. Go out there and find/make your own happiness. You are solely responsible for your happiness, only you.
  5. Take responsibility for your actions. When you have done something wrong, admit it and make it right.
  6. Stop worrying about what might go wrong and think positively about what will go right.
  7. Let go of negativity. No one wants to be around someone who is negative. Look for the sunshine!
  8. Do something new. Learn something new. Try something new. It is a NEW year after all!
  9. Trust that God’s plan for you is wonderful. Have faith.
  10. Spend time with your loved ones, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

So remember… next Monday is the first day of a new year. As Brad Paisley says it “is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one.”

Happy New Year Y’all!  See you next year!

Best,

Leslie

 

Morning Star, thy glory bright… (Morning Star, A Moravian Carol 1657)

Morning Star, thy glory bright, far excels the sun’s clear light.

Jesus be, constantly,

More than thousand suns to me. (Morning Star, verse 2)

Welcome Back to SOLO at SIXTY

“Morning Star” is a hymn that is sung by the Youth Choir at the Moravian Church Christmas Candlelight Lovefeast Service while flickering, lighted beeswax candles are passed around to everyone in the congregation. For me, Christmas is not complete without this service, which is why we plan our family Christmas celebration in Winston-Salem, so that we can attend this special service. The Christmas music, the Lovefeast buns (no beef included!), the Moravian coffee (brewed with cream and sugar – only coffee I drink all year!), and the lighted beeswax candles, trimmed in red crepe paper make this service the epitome of the Christmas season. The New Philadelphia Moravian Church women make and trim our beeswax candles. The beeswax represents the purity of Christ, the red crepe paper wrapped around the candle (to prevent dripping wax) represents the blood of Christ, and the lighted candle represents the Light of Christ. While the Youth Choir sings “Morning Star”, the church lights are dimmed and lighted candles are passed out to everyone. During the last verse of the final hymn, the congregation stands and raises the lighted candles to signify our faith and love for one another.

My family has attended this service at Christmas for as long as I can remember. This year was no different. I’ll never forget the time my very stylish grandmother Isabel was with us for Lovefeast and had her Moravian bun sitting daintily on her knee while drinking her coffee and listening to the choir sing. Well, she crossed her legs and OOPS, there goes her bun, rolling down the aisle to the front of the church until it hit the wall and fell over. My sisters and I about died laughing but my grandmother and mother were mortified! There was also the year my daughter was Baby Jesus in the nativity, as she was the youngest baby in the church that year – 1 month old. We don’t let her forget that! Oh how wonderful Christmas is!

“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.”  Edith Wharton

When I think of Christmas, I think of lights. I love all the Christmas lights not only on my tree and in my house, but also in my neighbor’s windows, on their trees, in every church and business, along the roadways, on the downtown mall, everywhere you look. Christmas lights up our lives, giving us hope. Two weeks ago, my lovely neighborhood had its Luminary night. We placed luminaries along our sidewalks (3 feet apart) throughout the neighborhood. It was a beautiful and breath-taking sight gazing down our street and seeing all the lights. What a feeling of comfort and joy.

Before I moved to Charlottesville 20 years ago, a group of neighborhood friends and I would meet and walk and talk (imagine that!) in our neighborhood every evening at 8:30 after getting our kids to bed. We loved walking in December because our neighborhood, which had no street lights, was illuminated by all the Christmas lights. We did not need our flashlights. Light flooded our path. OH I loved those walks. We solved many worldly problems on those walks!

“Simply shine your light on the road ahead, and you are helping others to see their way out of darkness.”  Katrina Mayer

Don’t you love that feeling when you’ve put all the Christmas lights on your tree and you plug them in? “Let there be light!” You look in wonderment and excitement at your beautiful Christmas tree. The lights transform the tree. I use many strands of miniature lights, but also add 4 strands of the BIG clear bulbs which really make my tree sparkle. I love the effect of the combination of smaller and bigger lights. There is no such thing as too many lights!

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My tree of lights!

Speaking of candlelight, I recently visited Montpelier (Home of James and Dolley Madison) for their candlelight Christmas tour. Though the period decorations were very simple and sparse, the house was beautiful in its Christmas glory, illuminated by candlelight. And what fun it was visiting with the hosts, James and Dolley, in their period clothing talking with us as if we were in the year 1794, their first Christmas in their first year of marriage. Candlelight and firelight was their source of light. And it was enough.

“Let your light shine so brightly that others can see their way out of the dark.”

Tomorrow is the shortest day of the year… remember back on June 21st when I wrote about that being my favorite day as it is the longest day, but sad in that the following days begin to shorten. Well, December 21st is a happy day for me as well, because, not only is Christmas only 4 days away, but each day we will be gaining 1 minute of light. And as of January 7th, we’ll be treated to 2 more minutes of light daily! Why do we love and need the light so much? No one wants to be in darkness. Everything and everyone is drawn towards light, just like a moth.

When I became SOLO, I went through a very dark time. But the light re-entered my life through the love and support of my children, family, friends and co-workers. I discovered that I have a lot of light to share with others. We all do. And we need to share that light.

“Believe in your own light, your own strength, and you will be the light and inspiration for others to do the same.”

Before I end, I want to tell you what a wonderful weekend I had! Saturday was my Granddawg Paige’s first birthday pawty in Richmond. My younger daughter and I went to the pawty and from there to Newport News to see our friends from KY and their newest grandbaby. What a blessing! Babies (and dogs) bring such light into our lives. Just look at the glow of a new mom. Sunday my daughters and I traveled to NC and met my son to share Christmas with Mom and my entire family. It was so much fun and ended with the Christmas Candlelight Lovefeast. Even though we did not get back to VA until very late (or early you might say), it was so worth it. Spending time with those we love and cherish cannot be replaced.

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My family… Oh how I love these people! Merry Christmas!

I also want to share with you Days 14-20 of my 25 Days of Christmas Sweaters. I hope to put a smile on your face with my treasured collection of beautiful (NOT tacky) Christmas Sweaters! I am looking so forward to spending this Christmas with my kids and hope you too are celebrating with those most precious in your life.

Let your light shine for others to see and experience. Cherish the time with those you love, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

I wish for you all a Happy Hanukkah today, and a blessed and Merry Christmas next Monday,

-Leslie

“I’ll be home for Christmas… You can plan on me…” (Bing Crosby, 1943)

Welcome back to SOLO at SIXTY!

Don’t you love those old Christmas songs? I do! Remember Christmas when you were a kid? The magic of the season? Looking through the Sears catalog (or Toys”R”Us for you younger folks) and dreaming of having all the special toys in the pictures. The anticipation of Santa’s arrival. On Christmas morning my kids would wake up and wait at the top of the stairs together before coming down to see what Santa left for them. They waited so that Mom (me) could get the video camera set up and record their first sight of Christmas. I treasured those moments and wanted to capture them forever. My Christmas joy. Santa did not wrap presents at our house, but left them by the hearth in line with each kid’s stocking, just like he did for my sisters and me when we were kids. However, I had some explaining to do since Santa DID wrap all the presents at our next-door neighbor’s house, where my son’s best friend lived. I told him our neighbor requested that of Santa, and somehow he believed it!

One year, my son and my next door neighbor’s son (both named Michael!) left Santa matching letters that all they wanted for Christmas was a tunnel between our houses so they could go back and forth all the time. (Like they didn’t do that already?!?!) So my neighbor and I wrote letters from Santa to the boys explaining why Santa could not build the tunnel that year. We used the same ink pen, paper, and I think only one of us wrote both letters – same handwriting. They fell for it hook, line and sinker! I loved playing Santa for my kids, keeping the Christmas magic alive for them.

“The love in our family flows strong and deep, leaving us memories to treasure and keep.”

Life is so simple for children who find Christmas joy easily. But we grow up and life happens. We become parents, have stressful jobs, and try to make it through each day, thinking, “if only there were more hours in the day.” And sometimes life throws us curve balls. As adults, we have to try a little harder than children to find that joy. But it is definitely there! I have always found joy in my Christmas traditions. As you know, I am not a big fan of change, so traditions followed us each year, especially at Christmas. But they were all fun and meaningful.

“The most treasured heirlooms are the sweet memories of our family that we pass down to our children.”

I went to a Christmas party 25 years ago in NC where the host family had decorated gingerbread houses. I saw how much fun this could be and decided I would do this with my family. I went home and made gingerbread houses for my kids to decorate and it soon became one of our most fun traditions at Christmas. All the kids decorated one, even the youngest in a high chair. Many years we invited friends and neighbors to join in. My children were very creative  and competitive in decorating their houses with ponds, sleighs, fire logs, wreaths, Christmas trees, snowmen… you name it! We used all sorts of candies (saved their Halloween candy every year) and always looked at candy as possible decorating material. Once their masterpiece was complete, I would sift powdered sugar over their creation as we all sang “Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow…” We decorated gingerbread houses through their college years. Last year, I continued this tradition with a very special group of children who were also experiencing a shake up in their family during the holiday season. What fun we had! We are going to do it again this year, and for many years to come.

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Masterpiece Gingerbread houses with our neighbors…1997.

It was tradition that I got a new Christmas sweater each year. Many for my birthday (in November) and always one for the Christmas party my neighbor and I hosted for 15 years to kick off the Christmas season, get the ladies in our neighborhood together, and benefit a charity. I have quite a collection! And I have been sporting my collection each day since December 1st: “The 25 Days of Christmas Sweaters.” Here are this past week’s joyous sweaters!

 

Our family always sponsored children from an Angel tree at Christmas. This was a fun project for the kids when they were young, to shop for gifts for our “Angels”. I tried to choose children close to the ages of my kids. They got to “help” Santa and provide Christmas magic for someone else. It was a good reminder to them that there are many people less fortunate than they were. I continue this tradition each year.

When we were living in NC, Christmas breakfast at my sister’s house was the main event on Christmas day. Country ham, eggs, grits, pancakes, Moravian sugarcake, and fruit. And presents! (Does it get any better than that?!) I hosted Christmas dinner. Also fun! Once we moved to VA and stopped traveling for Christmas, we continued with a big traditional breakfast and Christmas dinner, all on Christmas china.

“Family, like branches on a tree, grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one.”

Last year, my first Christmas SOLO, my kids and I found ourselves looking to our traditions and each other for stability in our changing family life. So we had our traditional Christmas Eve dinner followed by church. We watched old Christmas movies till very late. But Christmas morning, they did not wait at the top of the stairs and let me videotape them! No, my older daughter and I went for a very early morning run and returned to wake up the others and have our traditional breakfast and open presents. My daughter and son-in- law went to his family for lunch and we all met back at my house for our traditional Christmas dinner. It was a wonderful Christmas with lots of fun, laughter, and love. No tears.

Today is my Granddawg Paige’s first birthday!  Happy Birthday sweet Paige! (Named after the great UNC basketball player, Marcus Paige!) Looking forward to her birthday pawty this weekend!

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My Granddawg Paige on her First Birthday!

“For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given…”

As we head into the final weeks before Christmas, look for traditions to rediscover or start in your family. Find your Christmas magic and share it. I plan to continue my traditions with my children. And I am thankful to be able to spend this weekend with my whole family, the people most important in my life, as we celebrate Christmas early and attend the candlelight Lovefeast at our home church, following our family traditions and making special memories. Try to spend time with those you love this Christmas season, because as we all know, none of us is promised tomorrow.

Merrily,

Leslie

 

“Christmas time is here… “(A Charlie Brown Christmas, 1965)

“Happiness and cheer, fun for all, that children call, their favorite time of year…”

Welcome back to SOLO at SIXTY!

Christmas is definitely in the air. It is my favorite time of year. Yes, I love summer, but the excitement of Christmas is unparalleled. The smell of fresh Christmas trees, the beautiful decorations and lights, 25 days of Christmas sweaters (I began sporting my Christmas sweaters on December 1st and will continue until Christmas – see below), the holiday music, the wonderment on the faces of children seeing Santa, the frenzy of shoppers searching for that perfect gift. The panic of parents getting to the gym first thing and remembering “Oh Heck! Elfie needs to be moved before the kids wake up!”  (Elf on the Shelf)

“We miss something if we don’t see Christmas through a child’s eyes.”  Rosemary M. Wixom

Did you hear there is a new Elf on the market? No joking, it is the Kindness Elf. Unlike Elf on the Shelf, this Elf makes an appearance each morning with a kindness mission for kids and families. For example: today open the door for someone, make cookies for an elderly neighbor, sing Christmas carols at a nursing home. What better way to raise children in kindness? Also, Kindness Elf suggests fun things for families to do together such as piling in the car in your jammies to go look at Christmas Lights, dinner at a fun restaurant (no, not that fast food one again!), hot chocolate and ice skating. All to spotlight kindness and magic at Christmas time.

“Just remember, the true spirit of Christmas lies in your heart.”  Santa Clause, Polar Express

I was at the mall this week and stopped to watch the children with Santa. There was a LONG line. I remembered standing in those lines. The Santa was a decent one, but geez, I have seen some Santas that I thought might have been pulled right off the street! Once I changed my mind about having my kids visit Santa at the mall after taking one look at him! Have you seen any like that? However, I loved taking my kids to see Santa when they were little, hoping to get that perfect picture for the grandparents. Most of the time, this was done at our church’s preschool where the REAL SANTA made an appearance. (Just look at Santa in the pictures below.) Depending on their age, the kids were either terrified of Santa or not interested in him at all, or they loved him and hammed it up for a great picture (and a candy cane).

My adorable great-nephew went to see Santa last weekend and was not impressed. My friend’s beautiful and spunky daughter also visited Santa and again, she was not buying it. I remember my son reacting the same way his first time. Now mind you, both of these precious children are only a year old and have not even made their Christmas lists yet! Just give them time. Soon they’ll run to see Santa with their lists and will be on their best behavior all of December (especially if Elf on the Shelf is watching!).

Don’t you wish you had created Elf on the Shelf?!? $$$ This was not around when my kids were young, but everyone I know with young children has one (or more!). Maybe adults need the Elf. Both the Kindness Elf and the “behavior” Elf. Actually, Elf is at my office. Yes, “Jingles the Elf” is hidden daily and the team member who finds him wins a prize for the day (we are all searching feverishly for it now!). Mind you, prizes are not behavior based (thank heavens!), and they sure are fun! Honestly, I don’t think most adults need the Elf at Christmas. This is the one time of year when people seem to be the most generous – volunteering and donating to more causes, attending church (you know the C&E attendees, Christmas and Easter, but hey, they are there!), going out of their way to brighten the holidays for those less fortunate. And people seem to generally be merry. Yet it is also a chaotic and stressful time with so many parties, baking, searching for presents, wrapping those presents, worrying about paying for those presents come January, and trying to do too much each day. With my new SOLO status and lifestyle, my life has become much less stressful during the holidays. There are less presents to search for, less family functions to attend. I discovered that stress is mostly self-created and I decided I would change direction and make the holidays more meaningful and joyful and less stressful. How? Less decorating for one. Two years ago I had 36 bins of Christmas decorations that I put out, this year only 8 bins, 2 which are my famous Christmas sweaters! I purchase fewer presents, instead concentrating on 3 gifts for each of my children and gifts for my family that are fun and more meaningful. And I am finding more time to enjoy the season by attending special events – tomorrow night I am going to a holiday candlelight tour of James Madison’s Montpelier, this weekend is my neighborhood’s Luminary and holiday party night.  I have my kids, my family, and friends, and am truly blessed.

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2015’s 36 Christmas bins! No longer…

“The holiday season is a perfect time to reflect on our blessings and seek out ways to make life better for those around us.” Terri Marshall

Christmas is not easy nor happy for everyone. It is a difficult time for those who have suffered losses. Grief doesn’t recognize holidays. And there is no time limit on grief. I know several families who will be spending this Christmas as the first without their loved ones. How can we help them through this holiday season? Remember their loved ones, share memories of them, cry with them, laugh with them, listen to them. Grief is real.

“Christmas… A season of blessing from heaven above, a season of sharing with all those we love, a season of caring, warmth and good cheer, a season of hope for the coming new year.”

It is also time to begin thinking about 2018. It will be here in 26 days y’all! Did you experience disappointment in 2017? Joy? Are you happy to say goodbye to 2017 and hello to 2018? What will you change in your life in 2018? What would make 2018 the happiest year for you so far? What challenges will you face in 2018? Start thinking about 2018… I am!

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Anyone else have a Santa picture from Sears? 1961… me 4 years old!

Take time to enjoy the Christmas season each and every day. Choose events and functions that are truly meaningful to you. Look for blessings daily. And share this season with those you love, because as we all know, tomorrow is not promised to any of us.

Merrily,

Leslie