Welcome to “SOLO at SIXTY!” This blog is to encourage and motivate women in all stages of life, though it may appeal more to the “mature” ladies…..This “mature” lady will be 60 this year….60!!! WOW! But like they say, 6 and 0 is better than 5 and 9…..or 6 and 0 is better than 6 below! I plan to embrace 60 with all the grace and gusto I can find.
This has been a rollercoaster of a year for me…..this time last year I was married….for almost 36 years to my college sweetheart…..and now, I am divorced. Words I thought would never come out of my mouth – “I am divorced”. Never in my wildest dreams did I think my marriage would end….but it did. I have survived and grown in these last 12 months thanks to my wonderful 3 children (the absolute best kids in the world), my 2 sisters (could not make it without my sisters), my Mom (when she remembers), my girlfriends (we all need GF’s), my friends (I have wonderful friends), my co-workers (I work with the best people), my job (I love my job) and my church.
So what have I learned this year? Well I thrive on motivational sayings and love to share them:
“You either get bitter or you get better….it’s that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.”
I CHOSE to MOVE ON and get better! And I have……My ex-husband actually did me a favor.
So….background on me…..I am originally from NC (true Southern Girl)….went to college at The University of NC Chapel Hill and Wake Forest University. Lived in NC until 20 years ago when we moved our family to VA for 2-4 years and yet, 20 years later I am still here (happily I might add) in Charlottesville, VA. I am the mother of 2 daughters and a son who I respect and adore. I am the “middle child” to 2 wonderful sisters. I love my job – I have worked as the “numbers” person at acac Fitness and Wellness Centers for more than 16 years – I produce the financial statements.
What do I like? Spending time with my kids, THE National Basketball Champions – THE NORTH CAROLINA TAR HEELS, the beach, running, reading, working out, yoga, Hallmark Movies, and now I am getting back into tennis, taking lessons at acac with my daughter. In other words, I love to work out and stay busy and I work at the perfect place for both. Life is good!
Tune in again for motivation and encouragement and hopefully entertainment!